Define:Miss

The word miss has many meaning in the English lexicon. Type exactly the title of this post on Google and you will get it's many definition. But the one particular definition that I'm blogging about today is miss; the kind of feeling that you get when you are away from someone (or something). I personally don't know the explanation for this phenomenon. But on my opinion, this is what "missing" are:

What?
Missing someone (or something) is a feeling that is involuntary and need not any effort for it to happen. Missing is the kind of feeling when you want to scream, cry, weep, or any other method of suppressing your feeling. Some people might have other weird and peculiar ways of expressing their feelings of miss towards someone -- or something. some of them may resort on distracting themselves by keeping themselves busy by doing other things that doesn't remind them of the person (or thing) that they are missing. Some people even go as far as lying to themselves that they're not missing that someone (or something) in which, in my opinion, is not healthy because sooner or later they are going to get a personality conflict.

Why?
Well I don't know. We were created to be that way, that could be the simplest answer I guess. The amount of love, affection, attention and attraction you have towards someone (or something) doesn't affect if you will miss the person (or thing) or not, rather the slightest interest can make you miss the person (or thing). This however does give an impact of how much you will miss someone (or something) and for how long you will be in the situation. The absence of the person (or item) even for a while could make us miss them. Since we think that the person (or the item) completes us and that weren't whole if it wasn't for them.

How?
Like I said this phenomenon happens probably because we were created to miss someone (or something). The absence of the someone (or something) we love and care about will make us think a lot of them. How are they doing, are they well, are they with someone else, are they thinking of us, do they even miss us a little, and all sorts of other questions. Questions that may sound a lot like selfishness if spoken out loud. Most of the time missing happens to people who doesn't have anything to distract them from it. It seems that even hobbies aren't enough to cover up the feeling of missing.

When?
When you notice that something is just isn't right without the person (or thing) around. You feel as if everything you do is wrong for some reason and that for some reason you always get distracted from the real case at hands. Also when the event of "missing" happens, you tend to wish to stumble upon the person (or thing, but in this case it's just ridiculous) you miss anywhere you go. The feeling of missing is also amplified when you're in a silent place and lonely. That kind of atmosphere just seem to suit for missing someone (or something).

Where?
Everywhere! The feeling of miss isn't specific at a place. But like I said, being in a lonely place, silent place and even at night will amplify the feeling.

Who?
Every single human that isn't heartless will at some point of their lives miss someone (or something). Perfectly normal. But it's how you tackle those situation of missing is the one that differs you from other people. Whether you go bananas due to extreme case of missing or you keep your cool on hopes for better chances of curing your "missing" is totally up to one person. And not necessarily the feeling is mutual between two person though. Very subjective stuff.

Why I write all of these? I dunno I guess I have too much spare times on my hand and I've been thinking too much. I need to slow down.

Maybe I do miss someone